Happiness

Most desired state

Chitravarday
3 min readFeb 27, 2022
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Happiness is the most loving state, that makes a person feel good and shows a positive aspect of life.

We all know that happiness is not a forever-lasting thing, it is a state that frequently comes into our lives to make us believe that life is much better and worthy than what we assume. Happiness is an emotional state that brings joy, positiveness, and contentment to us. For me, we feel happier when everything is in balance. Balance in any aspect gives us happiness. Like if our relationships are in balance,( that is a proper understanding between people), we feel happier together. If we are stable economically and we don’t need to think a lot before buying what we want, also if we don’t need to ask someone to help us buy what we feel is essential for us, we are happy. Happiness is a state which we get with social balance, relationship balance, economical balance, spiritual balance, etc. When we are happy in doing something we are just involved in it. The definition of being happy is different for different people around but what’s common is the “balance” and state of “complete involvement” in the situation that makes you feel happy. Most of the kids love watching cartoons, where they find a balance between evil and hero. They love watching heroes killing the evil powers and all to bring a balance in the life of other characters. Kids are completely involved in watching their favorite character or cartoon and are happy watching it. But as we grow our choices don’t remain the same. For someone, the state of physical balance(fitness) makes them happy, for someone else it may be eating tasty meals which they probably don’t want to compromise even over health. Achieving spiritual balance is happiness for many people around, emotional balance, or some other kind of balance are some of the factors that bring happiness. Happiness is not based on just one factor. It is based on a variety of factors.

Why happiness matters

Happy people are more active, positive, energetic and have more truthful relationship.

If we are happy we are more productive, less stressed and that in turn makes our surrounding happier and positive. People like to be with such positive person.

Happiness makes a person look attractive and admiring.

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If I talk about myself I enjoy teaching students. When I teach , I find myself completely focused and generating knowledge in students makes me feel happier and brings a state of balance in my mind. I feel like doing something productive and important. Doing what we love to do without thinking about others' opinions is the best way to achieve a sense of happiness. Sharing knowledge and getting feedback from others is the other thing that makes me happy. I feel happy spending my time with my family most of the times and being alone a few times.

What’s the path towards a happier life

By focusing on our strength, doing what we enjoy, maintaining physical and mental health we can attain a sense of happiness. Spending time with family and friends brings happiness. Happiness makes us more generous and less violent. Happiness is easy to achieve. What matters is if we want to get it in the right way.

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